Moms Make a Difference!

By Pastor Raymond Wicks | May 2020

An old Spanish proverb says, “An ounce of mother is worth a pound of clergy.”

  • Moms should be honored

Prov. 30:11 “There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother.”

Don’t let that be you!  Instead give her some well-deserved accolades, for her sake and yours.

Ex. 20:12 “Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee.”

Brag on her!   Her cooking, faithfulness, kindness, and beauty.

Communicate with her with calls, cards, and notes.  Let her know she is appreciated and special to you.

Be a success and stay out of trouble!  Prov. 10:1 “…a foolish son is the heaviness of his mother.”

  • Moms should be helped

She is not your personal slave!  Help her with the daily chores.  Ease her load, or at least try not to be the load.

Find her greatest need and help her with it.  Does she need encouragement?  A hug?  An “I love you?”

  • Moms should be heard

Prov. 1:8 “…hear the instruction of thy father, and forsake not the law of thy mother.”

Prov. 15:20 “…a foolish man despiseth his mother.”

Listen to her.  She loves you and has your success in mind.

Happy Mother’s Day to all those who have put up with all of us! 

Coronavirus/COVID-19 and Service Updates

March 17, 2020 UPDATE

 

We continue to actively monitor the development of COVID-19 here and across the country, and to follow the recommendations of the Nebraska Department of Health and Human Services and the CDC.

On Monday, March 16th, Governor Pete Rickets has limited public gatherings to 10 people in an effort to keep the Coronavirus from spreading. With this in mind, we wanted to share with you our updated schedule for next week. We will update this schedule weekly until further notice.

  • Wednesday, March 18 – No PM Service
  • Sunday, March 22, at 11:00 am – Livestream Service Only
  • Wednesday, March 25 – No PM Service

Please join us during our Livestream service at 11:00 am on Sunday morning. The service will be streamed on our website at https://firstbaptistke.wpenginepowered.com/livestream, and also on our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/FirstBaptistPlattsmouth.

If you have a need related to a ride or delivery of food related to the Coronavirus, please call the church office at 402-296-9284 and let us know how we can be of help. Of course, always feel free to reach out to your adult connection group leader as well.

We would like to encourage our membership to continue to support our church by sending in your tithes and offerings online or via regular mail to the church office. If you choose to mail your tithe, please send it to First Baptist Church, 16220 Hwy 75, Plattsmouth, NE 68048.

Future event changes will be posted on our website and social media, as well as emailed to you.

Be sure to continue to pray for the safety and health of our community, nation, and other nations around the world. May each of us, as God’s people, continue to share the hope of the Gospel in such a unique time as this.

 

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How to Pray for Your Family by Pastor Raymond Wicks

Following are some lists to help guide you in praying for your spouse and/or child.

Praying for Wife

God would help me as her husband to be what I need to be.
God would help protect her spirit.
God would help with her physical needs.
God would help her spiritually.
God would grant her desires.
God would help her to see her worth—as woman, wife, and mother.
God would help her with her greatest need.
Give thanks for her.
Holy Spirit to help in areas we don’t know about.

Praying for Husband

God would help me as his wife to be what I need to be.
God would help him spiritually—fear of God, faith, humility.
God would give him wisdom and understanding.
God would help him with his work.
God would help him with his physical needs.
God would help him with his greatest need.
God would grant his desires.
Give thanks for him.
Holy Spirit to help in areas we don’t know about.

Praying for Children

God would help me as their parent to be what I need to be.
God would help their heart to be tender towards parents, God, reproof, and right.
God would help them to be saved—thank God if they are.
God would prepare and lead them to the right spouse.
God would help them in spiritual growth—mature in character–know and serve God.
God would place hedge of protection and hedge of thorns as needed.
God would help them to know and do the will of God.
God would help them with any special needs.
Thank God for them.
Holy Spirit to help in areas we don’t know about.

Praying for Future Spouse

God would have His will with my marriage plans—who/when.
God would help our influences—parents, pastor, teachers, and friends.
God would give us protection from sin.
God would give us proper preparation.
God would help us to continue a godly heritage.

Burial vs. Cremation by Pastor Raymond Wicks

Our views of the afterlife will influence how we handle the bodies of those who have died.  That is true, not just with Christians, but with many others of varied beliefs as well (e.g., Jews, Hindus, Muslims, Buddhists, Atheists, etc.).

Burial

The Biblical direction seems to give a strong trail of burial for the dead.

Ecc. 6:3 “If a man beget an hundred children, and live many years, so that the days of his years be many, and his soul be not filled with good, and also that he have no burial; I say, that an untimely birth is better than he.”

Gen. 15:15 “And thou shalt go to thy fathers in peace; thou shalt be buried in a good old age.”

Gen. 49:31 “There they buried Abraham and Sarah his wife; there they buried Isaac and Rebekah his wife; and there I buried Leah.”

Acts 8:2 “And devout men carried Stephen to his burial, and made great lamentation over him.”

Of course, the great example in the Bible is the record of the burial of Jesus Christ.  Matt. 27:57-59 tells of Joseph of Arimathea gaining permission from Pilate to bury our Lord’s body in a new tomb cut out of the rock.

Most of the key people in the Bible were buried.  In fact, it was considered a dishonor to the people of Israel not to receive a proper burial.

Cremation

The word “cremation” is derived from the Latin word “crematus” or “cremare” meaning “to burn up.”  During the process of cremation, human remains are placed in a wooden box, and then into a crematorium or furnace.  They are heated to temperatures between 1600-2000 °F until the remains are reduced to bone fragments and ashes.  The bone fragments are then processed in a machine until they resemble coarse sand, light gray in color.

The early Christian church rejected cremation, partly because of its association with Pagan societies. 

When people dead or alive were burned in the Bible, it usually had a bad connotation.

2 Chron. 34:4-5 “And they brake down the altars of Baalim… And he burnt the bones of the priests upon their altars, and cleansed Judah and Jerusalem.”

Deut. 12:31 “Thou shalt not do so unto the LORD thy God: for every abomination to the LORD, which he hateth, have they done unto their gods; for even their sons and their daughters they have burnt in the fire to their gods.”

2 Kings. 16:3 “But he walked in the way of the kings of Israel, yea, and made his son to pass through the fire, according to the abominations of the heathen, whom the LORD cast out from before the children of Israel.”

Eze. 24:9-10 “Therefore thus saith the Lord God; Woe to the bloody city! …and let the bones be burned.”

Practical Thoughts

  • The burial is a type of planting—symbolic as a reminder of the resurrection and future with the Lord. 1 Thessalonians 4:13-18But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope.  For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.  For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord shall not prevent them which are asleep.  For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord.  Wherefore comfort one another with these words.”

 

  • Just because a body has been destroyed by fire or any other means, doesn’t mean that a person will not have a body in heaven—all saved folks will get a new body. The heavenly body is a new, spiritual body, and not the old body of flesh and blood.  1 Cor. 15:35-55

 

  • Unless the cremated remains are interred in a cemetery, there may be no permanent marker or place to honor and memorialize the life and death of the deceased for generations to come.

 

  • The main reason people are cremated today is often because it is less expensive than burial.

 

  • How you want to be laid to rest is a personal decision. I have put together these thoughts since many have asked me recently about this subject.  It is important to discuss your wishes with your family, and also know the preferences of your family members.  This will make funeral preparations a little easier for everyone involved when that difficult time comes.

Why Don’t Your Children Behave?

Have you ever looked at other people’s children and wondered why they’re so well behaved, while your children aren’t?  Can you take your children to a restaurant and make it through a meal without being frustrated?  Can you have a conversation with another adult without being interrupted?  We’ve all been there, we’ve all been frustrated with our kids and struggled with how to make them behave.

I’ll let you in on a little secret… Everyone’s children misbehave.  The trick is to TRAIN them to obey.  Obedient children don’t happen by magic or accident.  I can’t promise that training will always work, but I guarantee you, that it WILL drastically improve your child’s obedience.
Before they can understand why they need to obey, children must be taught to have a heart for obedience.  The Bible tells us in Ephesians 6:1, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.”  In our home, our children love Jesus and they love being able to memorize bible verses.  One of the very first verses that they learned was Ephesians 6:1.  We repeat it often; this is because they need to understand that God wants them to obey their parents, just as He wants all of us to obey Him.  Our obedience to God shows our love for Him.

 

Here are a few simple ideas to help you train your children to obey.

First, teach them HOW to LISTEN!

Children have to be able to LISTEN in order to obey.  Have you ever heard of the concept of whole body listening?  No?  Me either, until a few years ago…  If you google, “whole body listening definition,” it explains how one gives different parts of the body a specific job.  This enables one to focus on what is being said and really absorb it.  It uses parts of the body that the speaker can see (ears, eyes, mouth, and hands), as well as those the speaker cannot see (i.e. the brain and heart).  Basically, you are teaching your child how to focus themselves on what you want them to do.  I can easily incorporate whole body listening by asking my children to “Give Me 5.”  This teaches them what I expect from them to show they are actively listening.  This way, they’re not distracted, they can hear the words I say AND actually comprehend the direction given.

Once they learn how to listen, they need to practice!  You want them to develop this skill well enough for it to become second nature.  My favorite way to do this, is through games.  We’ve all played Telephone before.  That’s a great way to start.  Another idea is to play the “Tell Me What I Said Game,” (directions: http://mosswoodconnections.com/activities/new-auditory-processing-activities/tell-me-what-i-said/?utm_medium=social&utm_source=pinterest&utm_campaign=tailwind_tribes&utm_content=tribes)

Make it fun for them!  All kids love games!

 

Then Teach them HOW to OBEY!

Once children fully grasp how to listen, they need to be trained to obey.  If your children do not come to you when you say to come, they aren’t fully obedient.  Think about this, if you tell your child to come to you at home and they don’t, no biggie, right?  WRONG!  If you don’t train them to obey while you’re in the home, what will happen when you’re in a parking lot, or in front of a car, but they run the opposite direction?  That’s a scenario that no one wants to be in.  So what’s the solution?  Training!  Kids love fun and games.  So we train them to obey with fun and games!

 

The most successful way I’ve seen this accomplished is what I affectionately refer to as “Puppy Training.”  Everyone knows you train a new puppy to obey with simple commands such as: sit, stay, and come.  Not everyone knows that this works well for little human babies too!  Teach your child to obey your command by standing a few feet away and telling them to come to you.  When the child obeys, make a huge deal by lavishing them with praise.  Repeat a few times and then back farther away.  Repeat.  And repeat.  And repeat…. As many times/days/weeks as it takes.  If your child learns, but then starts to forget, train them again!  The ultimate goal is that your child should come to you whenever you call to them without any questions or hesitations.

Here is a link to other games that work well for teaching obedience.https://www.triumphantlearning.com/teach-child-obey-games/
The biggest issue with my children’s obedience is when I have adult company over.  They want to join in on the conversation so badly they can’t stand it!  Someone once gave me some advice on how to handle that (obviously she could see I needed help!) and it has worked wonders for me!  Teach your child that while you’re speaking to another adult, and they need your attention, they should place their hand on your arm.  You will acknowledge them by placing your hand on top of theirs so they know you recognize their need.  When you get to a stopping place in your conversation, acknowledge their turn by asking, “What did you need to say?”  After practicing this a few times, my children got the hang of it!  Of course, we still need reminders every now and then, but their interrupting has gotten so much better!
Like I said, I can’t promise that your children will become perfect little angels, but I can promise you that these training tools have worked wonders for my little ones!